Could Your BPD Diagnosis Actually Be ADHD? Here’s How to Tell

Could Your BPD Diagnosis Actually Be ADHD? Here’s How to Tell

If you’ve ever felt like your emotions are too big, your relationships are too intense, or your life is just one impulsive decision after another… you might’ve been told you have Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).

But what if that wasn’t the full story?

For many people—especially women and AFAB adults—ADHD and BPD can look surprisingly similar on the surface. Both can involve impulsivity, mood swings, and difficulty with focus or emotional regulation. But the why behind those symptoms? Totally different.

Getting misdiagnosed means years of the wrong treatment—and that’s a big deal.

This therapist-led video breaks down:

✅ The core difference between ADHD and BPD
✅ How to figure out what’s really driving your impulsivity
✅ The surprising truth about having both conditions
✅ And the #1 myth that confuses even professionals

🎥 Watch the full breakdown here:

BPD vs. ADHD: The HUGE Difference You NEED to Know


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